Sex is the pleasure of the human life given by the god to all humans as a blessing. Sex is considered to be one of the divine paths to reach the god. Sex is the oneness of two souls and bodies. Sex is the mandatory duty of every individual to keep the human race multiplying. Replication is the birth right of an individual and thus is the sex. Thus, you should be very perfect while engaging in the sex to keep up your progeny growing. Hence to be the expert during the sexual encounter, you should avoid the following things:
1. Avoid being goal oriented.
This the special tip for all the men. Avoid being goal oriented means; don’t try the intercourse as soon as you have started the sexual activity. Keep sexual intercourse as the final course of the intercourse. Women hate it when men directly try and opt for the sexual intercourse. This turns down majority of women. Learn to explore the different erogenous zone through which you can turn up your partner and then go for the intercourse. Yes, intercourse is very important during the sex, but try to make it at last when both of you are sexually charged.
If you directly go for the intercourse, it would be painful for the women and leave her unsatisfied. It is very necessary to understand that men can reach the orgasm in 3 to 4 minutes, whereas women require about 15 to 20 minutes to reach the orgasm. So, men should start with the foreplay and give women the first orgasm and then strive for his satisfaction.
2. Don’t concentrate only on your needs.
Self-oriented nature is found to be extremely bad during the sexual activity. This point particularly stands for the both men and women. Both the partner should try for giving pleasures to their partner. This satisfies both the partners and allows them to reach the ultimate orgasm together. If any one of the partner is self-oriented then, then the sex becomes a monotonous activity and other partner feels neglected. Thus, to make the sex life more satisfactory it is essential to pay attention to the needs of your partner.
Every partner should pay the special attention towards the likes and dislikes of his partner. The likes should be tried out more times and the dislikes should be avoided during the sexual copulation.
3. Be an active participant in the sex.
Sex is the association of the two people to satisfy each other sexual needs. Men are always found to be actively participating in the sex, but the non-active participant in the sex is always found to be the female counterpart. Women are found to more disinterested in the sex than men. Most of men complain that the women don’t actively participate in the sex; they just lie down like the dead bodies when men are greatly indulged in the sex. Thus, women should avoid this attitude towards sex, and get actively involved in it.
4. Avoid making the sex as the mechanical act and try to make it passionate.
Sex without passion is food without salt. Try to make sex more passionate by which you will be able to enjoy the sex to its fullest. Remember that sex is not a mechanical activity, do it only when you feel the urge of it, and if you don’t then please avoid it. Make the sex passionate by trying out new positions during the sex. You can also try at different places; take a weekend trip to some place where only you 2 can enjoy the sex to its fullest.
5. Avoid being too hard during the sexual encounter.
This point is particularly for the men. Women love the harshness in men but men should avoid being too nasty and hard during the sexual encounter. This can hurt your partner tremendously and turn her off. Men should understand their limit and should understand that women are not hard as them. They should understand that hardness only is not enough to give her the pleasure. Women are soft like the petals of the rose and should be handled with lots of care. Thus, the delicate parts of the women body should be given the special attention. Women like it and get turned on after knowing how much you care about them.
Thus, to keep your sex life moving on smoothly and to make it more passionate we should try to avoid the above mentioned things.