Satisfactory sex is the requirement of every man and woman in this world. Nobody likes to be unsatisfactory in their sex life, but the truth is bitter because 45% of men and women in the world are unsatisfactory with their sex life. Nowadays the lifestyle that we live is very fast and every one wants to achieve the success and satisfaction very fast. This same criterion is used by the new generation about the sex, but this is wrong. The new generation because of their fast aspect toward the sex is ending up the sexual encounter in a hurry and is living an unsatisfied sex life. The average time a young married couple use to engage in sex during the year 2001 was 4 to 5 times in a week, whereas the newly married couples now are only engaging in sex once or twice in a week. This lack of interest in the sex is caused due to the unsatisfied sexual encounters.
The one most important thing this generation must learn is the patience. Go slow during the sexual encounter and you will see the effect. Slow and steady sex leads to the satisfaction of both the partners. In a hurry one or the other partner remains unsatisfied and next time that partner refrains away from the sexual encounter. Thus, today’s generation should follow a simple rule, “go slow” to have a satisfactory sex life. They should always remember the story of the rabbit and the tortoise in which the slow walking tortoise wins the race. Same is the case with the sex; you should always be slow to enjoy the sex to its fullest. Everybody should remember that sex is not any act that should be used only to have a penetrative sex, but it is the pleasure giving activity in which the two bodies and souls get one and get confined throughout the life in an unbreakable bond of love.
Sex is the passionate activity and should never be done in a fast and mechanical way. It is not just the penetrative act or the act done for growing your progeny. Sex is the activity that is done to achieve that pleasurable experience of the orgasm that makes you close to the real truth in the world. Please remember that sex is not a sin that you should engage in it only as a duty to give birth to your child. Sex is a blessing given by the god to the mankind to keep them healthy and live a happy and fulfilling life. Thus, it is very important for everybody to understand sex and engage in it more and more to live a happy life. It is also now been proved that individuals who engage in sex frequently are found to be living longer than other individuals. The most important thing to make your sex life passionate is to go slow about the sex. Always give an ample time for the sex that will help to explore more sex and learn and know more about your partner. This will make you engage more times in the sexual activity.
Slow and steady wins the race. Slow pace in the sex makes it more enjoyable and turn it into a satisfactory experience. To have a satisfactory sexual experience it is very necessary that both the partners should have an ultimate orgasm. There is very much difference between the men orgasm and the women orgasm. Men take 3 to 4 minutes to reach the orgasm, whereas women require about 12 to 15 minutes to reach an orgasm. Many a times due to the fast pace taken by men, women remain unsatisfied as they don’t reach the orgasm. Thus, men should understand this difference and should go slow with the things.
The first and foremost step that can help men to prolong their capacity is starting with the foreplay. Foreplay allows the men to hold on for the time until their partner reaches the same level of arousal that they have attained. Oral sex can also help the men to improve their performance during the sexual activity. This way you give a lot of time for the sex and finally the sex transforms in the wonderful sexual experience for both the partners. Hence, it is very necessary to go slow to have a satisfactory sex.